So you go to Home Depot to buy that sweet new Dewalt 18v cordless hammer-drill:
You need it to drill holes in the wood and screw the boards together. But is the drill what you really want?
Well, no... Ultimately you want holes in the wood. But you can't just go buy a hole to put anywhere you want, or buy the boards screwed together just the way you want. So, you get a tool to help you accomplish your goal.
In the same way, why would people want to learn public speaking? It's great to feel confident, speak clearly, and convey your ideas but like the drill, those are tools. And tools are meant to be used to accomplish tasks and goals. So what goals would the "tool" of public speaking help you accomplish?
And unless you are a lawyer and find yourself in court, it might be a big advantage for you to be able to address the judge in a coherent manner. And let's not forget the opposite sex. Are you so nervous that you might just forget your own name, or will you be able to sweep someone off their feet?
It's all about connecting with others, be it one-on-one or a large crowd. Public speaking is a tool you can use but honestly, with the right group, it's really a lot of fun. I've had a blast since I joined Toastmasters though when I first spoke, I was so nervous that the room spun. It was not a good time! But through the support of my Toastmasters club, I've grown to have my wits about me so that if I do have to speak in front of anyone else, I'll be able to rise to the occasion with confidence.
"Speech is power: speech is to persuade, to convert, to compel. It is to bring another out of his bad sense into your good sense."There are over 14,000 Toastmasters clubs worldwide. No cost or obligation to visit. What have you got to loose? Except maybe a little fear. Watch and see:
- Ralph Waldo Emerson